Couple saves a hurt cat from the street, discover it belongs to their neighbors, who in turn accuse them of stealing their cat and refuse to pay back the medical bill: ‘We thought it was a good deed'

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    "They let their domestic male house cats roam free"
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    We saved the neighbor’s cat, returned it, now they think we took the cat and gave it away.

    In December 2024, we saved what we thought was a feral cat after a hit and run. It was a $1600 bill, but we paid thinking we could keep the cat and add it to our growing
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    family. Fast forward a few days, and our neighbor reaches out (spoiler: it's their cat). They let their domestic male house cats roam free, and one of them
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    had crossed the road at a bad time. At first they're cool- they offer to pay for the bill, and want to come and pick up the cat. When they show up, suddenly we're told it's
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    Christmas and they can't pay the bill, and honestly we were treated pretty poorly. We gave the cat back since it's Christmas and it was a big part son's life, plus of their
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    it's just not good to hold a pet hostage in the long haul... In the following weeks, we tried to see what would work for our neighbors: monthly payment, periodic installments,
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    whatever to make it easy and fair, and even said we'd cover a portion of the bill to make it easier. In the end we got nothing, and made the decision after around 4 weeks
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    to waive the bill and just cover it. We decided to save the cat and took that responsibility, we couldn't have forced the neighbor to pay, even though I would have loved to. We'd
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    swept it under the rug and let bygones be bygones. However they continued to let this cat outside in its frail state, and then suddenly a couple of weeks later this cat is gone again. Shocker.
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    As time went on their other cat was showing up in our yard. We would say "you need to keep this cat inside, otherwise something will happen to it on our property and we will not.
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    be liable" given that the last situation was pretty frustrating. Well we were told that we were coaxing the cat over (we did set out food before we knew it was their cat but stopped once
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    we realized it "belonged" to someone), and if the cat wasn't doing any damage to our property to leave him alone. Thankfully this one stopped showing up.
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    Fast forward to today, I see a post suggesting that someone took their cat and gave it away - basically pointing the finger at us when we saved the cat, returned it, footed the bill, and
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    gave advice to keep it from getting lost or ki ed... and here we are. Honestly it grinds my gears that we performed what we thought was a good deed and then suddenly are made
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    out to be the antagonist in the whole ordeal. I've pretty much decided to wash my hands of the whole thing, and let them think whatever they want, as I've
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    gotten pretty tired of trying to take the cordial route and explain that we've done nothing to this cat and want nothing to do with them, it was their negligence that caused the cat to go MIA.
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    Total headache- any advice? Live my life and let it go? EDIT: Thanks for all the kind words and affirmations. It's truly a frustrating experience
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    for my wife and myself, as we only acted out of kindness and grace every step of the way. The post was strategically vague and we were not named directly. For now we are
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    moving on with our lives, and if the blame is laid on us directly then we'll take a direct approach. So I'm off to take some Tylenol and get on with life. Thanks again!
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    SnooWords4839 In the future, if you save an animal and it isn't microchipped, get it chipped in your name.
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    Glittering-Dust-8333 YES! Let it go. There's no telling what happened to that cat. (They could have been the ones who got rid of it and are blaming you out of spite.)
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    You did right by the cat and gave it love and care during it's short life. (Clearly not getting it elsewhere!) YOU are the ANGELS. Feel good about making his life a little better. Best wishes!
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    Keyspace_realestate Yes, live your life and let it go- some people will twist the narrative no matter how much good you do. You acted with compassion and integrity, and that speaks louder than their misplaced blame.

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